We Need to Celebrate God's Gift of Love

 Wisdom Celebrates God's Gift of Love

 Song of Solomon 1 through 8

 

The Song of Solomon is written about the love of a husband and a wife for each other.

 Most scholars believe this book was written by King Solomon.

 We know that Solomon wrote many songs, but this song is the only one approved by the Holy Spirit to be included in the canon of the Bible.

 1Ki 4:32  And he spake three thousand proverbs: and his songs were a thousand and five. 

 This book is probably written to the Jews, but we know that every book of the Bible was also written to the Church.

 There are several ways that could be used to interpret the words of this book, but it is always best to use a literal view of the Scriptures.

 2Pe 1:19  We have also a more sure word of prophecy; whereunto ye do well that ye take heed, as unto a light that shineth in a dark place, until the day dawn, and the day star arise in your hearts: 

2Pe 1:20  Knowing this first, that no prophecy of the scripture is of any private interpretation. 

2Pe 1:21  For the prophecy came not in old time by the will of man: but holy men of God spake as they were moved by the Holy Ghost. Wisdom Celebrates God's Gift of Love.

 We should interpret this book and its text naturally and plainly.

 It is a song about human, married love as God intended it to be.

 The marriage between one male and one female is the only approved marriage in the Scriptures.

 Everything else is an abomination to God and living in sin.

 We should be able to see an actual, historical relationship of King Solomon and his most loved first wife, a Shulamite woman.

 We can also see in typology that this marriage could be used as a type of the relationship of our Lord Jesus Christ to His Church.

It should also represent our own love for our Savior.

 The one thing we must do as we study the Bible is not to make this story fit some cultural mold.

 Almost every king in the day of King Solomon had a harem, and it was expected of them largely for the purpose of expanding their seed.

 Many of the king's marriages were for political purposes to build alliances with kings of other nations to provide security, but also prosperity for his nation.

 The Bible in no way defends the practice of polygamy!

 Deu 17:17  Neither shall he multiply wives to himself, that his heart turn not away: neither shall he greatly multiply to himself silver and gold. 

 God uses the leaders that he puts in place in every nation.

 King Solomon was living in sin!

 Neh 13:26  Did not Solomon king of Israel sin by these things? yet among many nations was there no king like him, who was beloved of his God, and God made him king over all Israel: nevertheless, even him did outlandish women cause to sin.

 We can also understand that none of Solomon's marriages to this harem were romantic or loving.

 Many of these wives were considered possessions.

 Most of these wives lived with this and accepted it.

 These things remained this way until the coming of Jesus Christ, as he brought changes even to the Jews.

 Jesus Christ elevated the status of women at that time and still does today.

 A relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ is the best relationship that any of us can achieve, male or female.

 It is the epistles of the New Testament that reveal God's intention in every marriage of a male and a female.

 There are no other God approved marriages other than a male born a male and a female born a female to each other.

 The marriage of King Solomon to this Shulamite woman was not political.

 We can see the beauty of marital love and God's approval of the sexual relationship within a godly marriage.

 We can also see a type of Spiritual relationship between Jesus Christ and His Church (The Bride of Christ).

 *****Son 1:1  The song of songs, which is Solomon's. 

Son 1:2  Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth: for thy love is better than wine. 

Son 1:3  Because of the savour of thy good ointments thy name is as ointment poured forth, therefore do the virgins love thee. 

Son 1:4  Draw me, we will run after thee: the king hath brought me into his chambers: we will be glad and rejoice in thee, we will remember thy love more than wine: the upright love thee. 

 If we love the Lord Jesus Christ, then we should love the Word of God.

 We know from the Book of Genesis to the Book of Revelation that the Word of God is all about the Messiah, the Lord Jesus Christ.

 We also know that every word, every phrase, every passage in the Word of God is inspired by God Himself, and it is profitable for teaching, for reproving, for correction, and for training in righteousness so that we can be equipped for the good work of the Gospel.

 2Ti 3:16  All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: 

2Ti 3:17  That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works. 

 This Song of Solomon is no different; it is the inspired Word of God!

 This is not a song about Solomon; it is a song about love!

 It is a song about human love, romantic love between a man and a woman.

 These are the words of the bride as she states her passionate love for her bridegroom.

 She does not name him. It was needless because all who know her know who her Bridegroom is and is the only One in her thoughts.

 If we put in the name of Jesus Christ, then those kisses of Jesus are meant to imply everything in Christ, and with Christ, Jesus in his person, and Jesus in his fulness, suitableness, and all-sufficiency, so on our part the kiss of grace implies everything that can denote love, adoration, faith, dependance, homage, subjection, and praise.

 If we apply this action to ourselves, it should mean that we cast ourselves on the Lord Jesus as a poor, dying sinner in need of salvation, saved by His blood.

 We can see that His kisses had an intoxicating effect on this wife, His bride.

 In most cases, this ointment is the oil of the olive, which many times is often perfumed.

 Oil in the Bible many times refers to the Holy Spirit.

 1Sa 16:13  Then Samuel took the horn of oil, and anointed him in the midst of his brethren: and the Spirit of the LORD came upon David from that day forward. So Samuel rose up, and went to Ramah.

 This wife could only imagine the scent of her husband, whose ointment was just right for her senses.

 In the same way, His fragrance filled the air around Him; his good name, His character, and His reputation had saturated the community of those who had made themselves pure through the blood of Christ.

 Remember, a good name is better than precious ointment.

 She loved the way He smelled, but most of all she loved who He was.

 No wonder those who were pure loved Him.

 He was the most sought-after man in the Kingdom.

 She was now the envy of all the other maidens just as the Church is the envy of flase religion today.

*****Son 2:1  I am the rose of Sharon, and the lily of the valleys. 

Son 2:2  As the lily among thorns, so is my love among the daughters. 

Son 2:3  As the apple tree among the trees of the wood, so is my beloved among the sons. I sat down under his shadow with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to my taste. 

Son 2:4  He brought me to the banqueting house, and his banner over me was love. 

Son 2:5  Stay me with flagons, comfort me with apples: for I am sick of love. 

Son 2:6  His left hand is under my head, and his right hand doth embrace me. 

Son 2:7  I charge you, O ye daughters of Jerusalem, by the roes, and by the hinds of the field, that ye stir not up, nor awake my love, till he please.

 The term "the Rose of Sharon" is often associated with our Lord Jesus Christ, symbolizing His beauty, His perfection, and the love He offers to all who believe in Him.

 Many see "the Rose of Sharon" as the Church or as the Believers who are cherished as the people of God.

 Many see "the Rose of Sharon" as it describes the intimate relationship between our Lord Jesus and all those who love Him, and the love God has for His creations.

 Nowhere in the New Testament is our Lord Jesus actually referred to as the Rose of Sharon.

 He is referred to by many as the Rose of Sharon because many see the Rose as the most beautiful of all flowers.

 Sharon is a place, and it is one of the largest valley plains in all of Israel.

 In the time of King Solomon, it was considered a wild and fertile plain and had many beautiful flowers that grew wildly.

 Sharon was known for its beauty and majesty.

 Almost all Bible scholars say this Shulamite woman was the person who is described as the Rose of Sharon, as King Solomon's bride.

 Many say she is described as a black woman, and she could have been, and there would have been no problems if she were.

 What she was saying was that she was not like all those other women who were spoiled with riches, but that she worked out in the elements of the seasons, including the sun, and the sun had darkened her skin compared to the fair maidens of Israel. 

 This young shulamite was saying that she was not one of those dainty spoiled children of royalty.

She was not afraid of hard work. 

 To us who love Him, this passage refers to Jesus as being the Bridegroom and the Church as His Bride.

If the Church is not a hard working church it is not the Bride of Christ.

 The Holy Spirit is using the "lover" analogy to describe the personal relationship that He wants us to have with God's Son.

 Our Scripture says that she is the Rose of Sharon, a type of country flower, and is indeed a type of the Church.

 In type, the Church is the Rose of Sharon and the Lily among the thorns.

The Church is the Lily among the thorns of worldly people.

 It is Solomon who speaks up to his bride, saying she is as a lily compared to the thorns of other women, as the Church is in this world.

 As far as Solomon was concerned, there was not another woman in the world like his Shulamite bride.

 She may have seen herself as pretty, but she did not see herself as something special, she confessed she was just an average, everyday wildflower.

 She was not seeking compliments, nor a false sense of modesty; she was just being sincere.

 She said that Solomon was like an apple tree in a forest of other trees.

 Apple trees did not grow in the forest of Israel at that time, and if one was found, it was because someone had dropped a seed from an apple they had brought from somewhere else or a passing bird.

 Solomon had snatched her away from hard labor, and she was comfortable in his shade. Solomon had actually rescued her from her previous life.

 His fruit was sweeter than anything she had ever known.

 We can see that this apple tree is in type as the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Church now lies in His shadow His safety.

 In verse four, we see this bride give her testimony to her friends of how her life had changed, as if they were all in the banquet house where she is the honored guest.

 In type, we see that the Born-Again child of God, as they have entered into that Heavenly House of the Lord, and sitting at the table of the Lord Jesus Christ, no longer the Bride but now the wife.

 Rev 19:7  Let us be glad and rejoice, and give honour to him: for the marriage of the Lamb is come, and his wife hath made herself ready. 

Rev 19:8  And to her was granted that she should be arrayed in fine linen, clean and white: for the fine linen is the righteousness of saints. 

Rev 19:9  And he saith unto me, Write, Blessed are they which are called unto the marriage supper of the Lamb. And he saith unto me, These are the true sayings of God. 

 This young bride had to admit she was lovesick and overwhelmed by the love shown to her by her husband, the King.

 In type, this is the Church sitting at the feet of Jesus, amazed at the love He has shown to us.

 She does not talk so much of her love as she does of His love for her.

 Isa 54:5  For thy Maker is thine husband; the LORD of hosts is his name; and thy Redeemer the Holy One of Israel; The God of the whole earth shall he be called.

 As he embraces her, she feels that moment of rest and security that she has never had in life.

 She wishes to remain in His arms forever.

 The left arm is the arm that comes as it was from His heart; the right arm is the arm of His power.

 The fact that his left hand is under her head also means that he lifts her head to look at him.

 The fact that his right arm embraces her means that he keeps it protective around her.

 Deu 33:27  The eternal God is thy refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms: and he shall thrust out the enemy from before thee; and shall say, Destroy them.

 Love cannot be forced upon anyone, or they will lose their security.

 Those female gazelles and female deer are shy animals and will flee at the first sign of danger.

 This Shulamite had a great desire to consummate the marriage, but she knew she must remain chaste until that time came, and she warned all those around her.

 She made her friends promise her that they would also wait for the right person.

 In type, we see that we must make a strong commitment to the Lord and stick with our convictions.

 Rom 12:1  I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. 

Rom 12:2  And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God. 

 *****Son 3:6  Who is this that cometh out of the wilderness like pillars of smoke, perfumed with myrrh and frankincense, with all powders of the merchant? 

Son 3:7  Behold his bed, which is Solomon's; threescore valiant men are about it, of the valiant of Israel. 

Son 3:8  They all hold swords, being expert in war: every man hath his sword upon his thigh because of fear in the night. 

Son 3:9  King Solomon made himself a chariot of the wood of Lebanon. 

Son 3:10  He made the pillars thereof of silver, the bottom thereof of gold, the covering of it of purple, the midst thereof being paved with love, for the daughters of Jerusalem. 

Son 3:11  Go forth, O ye daughters of Zion, and behold king Solomon with the crown wherewith his mother crowned him in the day of his espousals, and in the day of the gladness of his heart. 

 The wedding custom of that day in Israel was that weddings did not take place at the Temple nor at any Synagogue, but rather in the couple's homes.

 There would be a procession to the bride's home led by the Groom, who would then escort her back to their own new residence.

 Next, a wedding feast was given, which could last up to a week or longer.

 Though the wedding feast was prolonged, that couple would consummate their marriage on the first night.

 Verse 6 tells us that King Solomon and the Shulamite began their procession back to Jerusalem.

 This verse tells us what the onlookers saw.

 King Solomon, the richest man in the world, would have provided for an extravagant ceremony.

 That pillar of smoke reminds us of the time that the Lord Jesus led the Jews out of Egypt.

 The bride is perfumed, which tells us of her excellent virtues and service, which are acceptable to God and the Grace of Jesus Christ, which are a sweet savor to our Heavenly Father.

 He makes His Bride enriched and beautiful with the perfume and powders. The spices of Arabia were famous at that time.

 Rev 5:8  And when he had taken the book, the four beasts and four and twenty elders fell down before the Lamb, having every one of them harps, and golden vials full of odours, which are the prayers of saints. 

 2Co 2:14  Now thanks be unto God, which always causeth us to triumph in Christ, and maketh manifest the savour of his knowledge by us in every place. 

2Co 2:15  For we are unto God a sweet savour of Christ, in them that are saved, and in them that perish: 

 That wilderness was a place of bondage and misery, sin and humiliation, but Jerusalem was the mountain of the Lord.

 Psa 68:8  The earth shook, the heavens also dropped at the presence of God: even Sinai itself was moved at the presence of God, the God of Israel. 

 Today the Church is passing through the wilderness, and the Church must follow the Lord Jesus, King of Kings, Lord of lords to New Jerusalem.

 We must leave the wilderness of sin and unbelief to have an everlasting union with our Savior.

 As the Church has been recognized, then the Bridegroom must be recognized.

 Those sixty valiant men were twice the number of men who usually traveled with the King, but He wants the bride to feel safe.

 We can see that the bed is a type of the Church, which is beautiful through the beauty of Jesus Christ.

 Which is also safe by the protection of Jesus Christ.

 In which Jesus Christ is glorified, and all believers enjoy sweet fellowship with Him throughout eternity.

 We should understand that God will use whatever it takes to protect His Church from the wiles of the Devil.

 Every valiant man was prepared to fight to prevent danger to the Church.

 That darkness is the world of Satan, the Devil.

 1Th 5:5  Ye are all the children of light, and the children of the day: we are not of the night, nor of darkness. 

1Th 5:6  Therefore let us not sleep, as do others; but let us watch and be sober. 

1Th 5:7  For they that sleep sleep in the night; and they that be drunken are drunken in the night. 

1Th 5:8  But let us, who are of the day, be sober, putting on the breastplate of faith and love; and for an helmet, the hope of salvation. 

1Th 5:9  For God hath not appointed us to wrath, but to obtain salvation by our Lord Jesus Christ, 

1Th 5:10  Who died for us, that, whether we wake or sleep, we should live together with him. 

1Th 5:11  Wherefore comfort yourselves together, and edify one another, even as also ye do. 

 No matter how bright the Church shines, it cannot shine like our Savior.

 That chariot is where the Bride and the Bridegroom ride together is in typeology the Gospel, where our Savior was triumphant, and the Church rides into Glory.

 1Pe 1:25  But the word of the Lord endureth for ever. And this is the word which by the gospel is preached unto you. 

 Heaven is going to be the most beautiful place we have ever laid eyes on, and we do not have the words to describe how Heaven will be.

 We are still to be busy with the work the Lord has given us to do, even while we know the Trumpet could sound at any moment.

 John the Baptist said John 3:29  He that hath the bride is the bridegroom: but the friend of the bridegroom, which standeth and heareth him, rejoiceth greatly because of the bridegroom's voice: this my joy therefore is fulfilled. 

 Rev 19:6  And I heard as it were the voice of a great multitude, and as the voice of many waters, and as the voice of mighty thunderings, saying, Alleluia: for the Lord God omnipotent reigneth. 

Rev 19:7  Let us be glad and rejoice, and give honour to him: for the marriage of the Lamb is come, and his wife hath made herself ready. 

Rev 19:8  And to her was granted that she should be arrayed in fine linen, clean and white: for the fine linen is the righteousness of saints. 

Rev 19:9  And he saith unto me, Write, Blessed are they which are called unto the marriage supper of the Lamb. And he saith unto me, These are the true sayings of God.

 Weddings just do not seem to be important in today's world.

Many couples just move in together to see if they are compatible and most of them separate because they forgot relationships take commitment.

 *****Son 4:12  A garden inclosed is my sister, my spouse; a spring shut up, a fountain sealed. 

Son 4:13  Thy plants are an orchard of pomegranates, with pleasant fruits; camphire, with spikenard, 

Son 4:14  Spikenard and saffron; calamus and cinnamon, with all trees of frankincense; myrrh and aloes, with all the chief spices: 

Son 4:15  A fountain of gardens, a well of living waters, and streams from Lebanon. 

 In that day, many gardens were enclosed to keep animals and strangers from having access to them.

 Solomon was saying that his bride was like an enclosed garden that only he had access to.

 The Lord Jesus feels this way about the Church as He strives to keep the Church pure, if the Church looks to Him only as the Head of the Church.

 The true Church is defended by the providence of Almighty God and reserved for His use.

 Whosoever loves the Lord Jesus Christ and shares their love with Him alone will shut themselves off from other objects of love.

 Mrk_12:30  And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment.

 Solomon was praising this Shulamite for her purity until the marriage ceremony was completed.

 The Shulamite was bringing to her husband a precious gift, a gift that could only be given once.

 This speaks to all the fair maidens in the Church.

 It is a gift for that one special person on the wedding day. The same one who has that endless love for them.

 Heb 13:5  Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.

 Solomon continues to describe how lovely his bride is to him.

 She was the greatest orchard.

She was the most pleasant of all fruits.

She was the most fragrant flower.

She was the most aromatic herb.

She was like the best of all perfumes.

She was the sweetest of all sugar canes.

She was the most fragrant of all the oils.

She was the most divine of all females.

She was the most anointed of all oils.

She was a living fountain of water.

 She was now ready and available to refresh the life of her husband.

 Psa 46:4  There is a river, the streams whereof shall make glad the city of God, the holy place of the tabernacles of the most High. 

Psa 46:5  God is in the midst of her; she shall not be moved: God shall help her, and that right early. 

 *****Son 5:1  I am come into my garden, my sister, my spouse: I have gathered my myrrh with my spice; I have eaten my honeycomb with my honey; I have drunk my wine with my milk: eat, O friends; drink, yea, drink abundantly, O beloved. 

 Solomon knew it was this Shulamite who made him complete.

 Gen 2:24  Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

 Nine times in this one Scripture, Solomon uses the word “my”.

 His bride had given all she had to him.

 This is exactly what the Lord Jesus expects from His Church.

 Joh 14:23  Jesus answered and said unto him, If a man love me, he will keep my words: and my Father will love him, and we will come unto him, and make our abode with him.

 1Jn 3:18  My little children, let us not love in word, neither in tongue, but in deed and in truth. 

1Jn 3:19  And hereby we know that we are of the truth, and shall assure our hearts before him. 

1Jn 3:20  For if our heart condemn us, God is greater than our heart, and knoweth all things. 

1Jn 3:21  Beloved, if our heart condemn us not, then have we confidence toward God. 

1Jn 3:22  And whatsoever we ask, we receive of him, because we keep his commandments, and do those things that are pleasing in his sight. 

1Jn 3:23  And this is his commandment, That we should believe on the name of his Son Jesus Christ, and love one another, as he gave us commandment. 

1Jn 3:24  And he that keepeth his commandments dwelleth in him, and he in him. And hereby we know that he abideth in us, by the Spirit which he hath given us. 

 No doubt that our young people should take a good look at the Song of Solomon once they know what it means.

 *****Son 5:2  I sleep, but my heart waketh: it is the voice of my beloved that knocketh, saying, Open to me, my sister, my love, my dove, my undefiled: for my head is filled with dew, and my locks with the drops of the night. 

Son 5:3  I have put off my coat; how shall I put it on? I have washed my feet; how shall I defile them? 

Son 5:4  My beloved put in his hand by the hole of the door, and my bowels were moved for him. 

Son 5:5  I rose up to open to my beloved; and my hands dropped with myrrh, and my fingers with sweet smelling myrrh, upon the handles of the lock. 

Son 5:6  I opened to my beloved; but my beloved had withdrawn himself, and was gone: my soul failed when he spake: I sought him, but I could not find him; I called him, but he gave me no answer. 

There comes a time when the honeymoon is over and reality sets in.

 Before we get to this passage, let's just keep in mind how much of the Church has left the Lord Jesus, and He is outside the door of the Church wanting to get back in.

 Rev 3:15  I know thy works, that thou art neither cold nor hot: I would thou wert cold or hot. 

Rev 3:16  So then because thou art lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will spue thee out of my mouth. 

Rev 3:17  Because thou sayest, I am rich, and increased with goods, and have need of nothing; and knowest not that thou art wretched, and miserable, and poor, and blind, and naked: 

Rev 3:18  I counsel thee to buy of me gold tried in the fire, that thou mayest be rich; and white raiment, that thou mayest be clothed, and that the shame of thy nakedness do not appear; and anoint thine eyes with eyesalve, that thou mayest see. 

Rev 3:19  As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten: be zealous therefore, and repent. 

Rev 3:20  Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me. 

Rev 3:21  To him that overcometh will I grant to sit with me in my throne, even as I also overcame, and am set down with my Father in his throne. 

Rev 3:22  He that hath an ear, let him hear what the Spirit saith unto the churches. 

 This is the Church Age we are in today.

 In Chapter 5, Verse 2, we begin to see that the newness of marriage has passed, and life has set in. Life can be harsh even for those who have such great love.

 This Shulamite was no longer "my bride", but she was "my darling".

His darling wife locked the door on him and did not let him in.

It is possible this new bride of Solomon was dreaming and had two dreams, but maybe one was a dream and the other was reality.

Either way, she was alone in the bedroom, and we do not know why.

As a believer, there may be times when we think that we are so armored up that we have lost our focus on the Lord.

If we ever lose our focus on the Lord, we are treading in dangerous waters.

This change in love is noted in the Scriptures.

Rev 2:1  Unto the angel of the church of Ephesus write; These things saith he that holdeth the seven stars in his right hand, who walketh in the midst of the seven golden candlesticks; 

Rev 2:2  I know thy works, and thy labour, and thy patience, and how thou canst not bear them which are evil: and thou hast tried them which say they are apostles, and are not, and hast found them liars: 

Rev 2:3  And hast borne, and hast patience, and for my name's sake hast laboured, and hast not fainted. 

Rev 2:4  Nevertheless I have somewhat against thee, because thou hast left thy first love. 

Rev 2:5  Remember therefore from whence thou art fallen, and repent, and do the first works; or else I will come unto thee quickly, and will remove thy candlestick out of his place, except thou repent. 

Solomon knew she was unhappy with him, and we may not know the real reason, but He is King, and He has a large harem, and as king, he had many obligations.

He explains that he has been working as his head was filled with dew and his hair with the drops of his sweat.

She refused his advances. She was already washed, disrobed, and was in bed. Why should she dirty her feet she said to herself.

She refused to unlock the door. It is possible that she was just too tired.

We do not have to think that Solomon was trying to force the door open, probably because he could certainly have had the door opened if he chose to do so.

Husbands must realize that their wives could get tired with all the homework they have to do and many work outside the home.

It seems she was angry with Solomon for some reason.

We have to wonder how a husband with over one thousand women could ever have a true husband-to-wife relationship.

This Shulamite began to realize that she was not the queen in her household.

Solomon did not really understand God.

Eph 5:23  For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. 

Eph 5:24  Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. 

Eph 5:25  Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 

Eph 5:26  That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 

Eph 5:27  That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. 

Eph 5:28  So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. 

Solomon's bride was hurt, angry, and resentful, but her heart began to soften, and she repented of her anger, and her desire for him returned.

She notices his hands as he reaches for her.

The Lord Jesus said: Luk 24:39  Behold my hands and my feet, that it is I myself: handle me, and see; for a spirit hath not flesh and bones, as ye see me have. 

Psa 45:8  All thy garments smell of myrrh, and aloes, and cassia, out of the ivory palaces, whereby they have made thee glad.

When she reached the door to let her husband in, she could smell the myrrh that he had left behind upon the lock.

The Shulamite paid a high price for not letting her husband into the bedchamber.

We will pay a high price when we reject the truth of the Lord Jesus Christ!

Jhn_3:18  He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.

Solomon had not rejected her.

Solomon had remembered the place where they had first met and had not forgotten the love he had for her.

*****Son 8:6  Set me as a seal upon thine heart, as a seal upon thine arm: for love is strong as death; jealousy is cruel as the grave: the coals thereof are coals of fire, which hath a most vehement flame. 

Son 8:7  Many waters cannot quench love, neither can the floods drown it: if a man would give all the substance of his house for love, it would utterly be contemned. 

A seal was a piece of metal, usually round or oval, which meant it was a sign of belonging to the king.

Seals are sometimes worn on the finger as a ring or upon a string or chain around the neck.

It would be applied to softened wax to seal some document or other government papers.

Every Christian wears the seal of the Lord: 2Ti_2:19  Nevertheless the foundation of God standeth sure, having this seal, The Lord knoweth them that are his. And, Let every one that nameth the name of Christ depart from iniquity.

That seal is the Holy Spirit: Eph_1:13  In whom ye also trusted, after that ye heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation: in whom also after that ye believed, ye were sealed with that holy Spirit of promise,

We are sealed until the day the Lord Jesus returns to take us home: Eph_4:30  And grieve not the holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption.

The Shulamite bride of King Solomon wanted such a seal on Solomon's heart so he could not give his heart to another.

She said to Solomon, "Place me as the seal as a signet ring upon thy heart".

Love is as strong as death.

She wishes to be united in the closest way with her lover and valued as his most precious possession.

She knows that jealousy is like the fires of hell, unquenchable.

She knows that no amount of water could put out such fervent love as she has for Solomon.

It is a fact that love is life itself.

We need the Lord Jesus Christ because we need His love and lest we forget, He is the Light of Life.

Jhn_13:34  A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another

Eph_3:17  That Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith; that ye, being rooted and grounded in love,

Eph_3:19  And to know the love of Christ, which passeth knowledge, that ye might be filled with all the fulness of God.

Joh 6:28  Then said they unto him, What shall we do, that we might work the works of God? 

Joh 6:29  Jesus answered and said unto them, This is the work of God, that ye believe on him whom he hath sent. 

Amen

The Virtuous Woman

  Wisdom's Praise for the Virtuous, Wise Woman

 Book of Proverbs Chapter 31 verses 10-31

 Many things have been said throughout the Book of Proverbs about women of folly, foolish women, and wrong women, but the Holy Spirit would not finish this great book without telling us about the virtuous woman.

 No matter who we are, as men, we all have a desire for a virtuous woman.

 Virtuous means morally good, acting in conformity to moral law, practicing moral duties, and abstaining from vice.

 Conforming to Divine Law.

 How did a woman come about? Gen 2:21  And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof; 

Gen 2:22  And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man. 

Gen 2:23  And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.

 Only one man can join with one woman and be One Flesh, and this by marriage.

 The Lord Jesus said: Mat 19:4  And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, 

Mat 19:5  And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? 

Mat 19:6  Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. 

 This is the definition of marriage, as defined by Almighty God.

 These are the only two humans that God has created!

 What does the Holy Spirit say about this virtuous woman?

 *****Pro 31:10  Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. 

 The most important decision we will ever make is what we will do with the Lord Jesus Christ.

 Are we going to believe Him and the Gospel, or are we going to ignore Him?

 The Bible says we are to submit to Him in complete obedience.

 We already know that submitting is far greater than just complying.

 Once we have accepted the Gospel of Jesus Christ as the truth of God, then the Holy Spirit will come to live in our hearts, and we can know what it is to "Fear the Lord".

 For most of us, the next great decision we will make is the choice of our spouse.

 Pro 18:22  Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.  

 We can understand from this question in verse ten that it may not be easy to find a virtuous woman.

 What we see in this passage is the qualifications of an excellent wife.

 What we see in this passage is the embodiment of all the wisdom instructions contained in the previous thirty chapters.

 We have a portrait in words of an exceptionally wise woman who has the "Fear of the Lord".

 If we are a Christian male and fear the Lord, then if we are seeking a wife, we should seek a Christian female who also has the fear of the Lord.

 We must understand that because family relationships are the most important relationships in life, the character of the wife and mother is of great importance.

 Eph 5:25  Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 

Eph 5:26  That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 

Eph 5:27  That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. 

Eph 5:28  So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. 

Eph 5:29  For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: 

Eph 5:30  For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. 

Eph 5:31  For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. 

Eph 5:32  This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. 

Eph 5:33  Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband. 

 We may read these words as describing a perfect wife and a perfect marriage, and we know that none of us is perfect, so for the husband to find such a godly wife, then that husband must be a God-fearing man living as close as he can to the Word of God.

 A virtuous woman is a woman who is noticed by many of God's people because she has an excellent character, no matter where she is or what she is doing.

 Rth 3:11  And now, my daughter, fear not; I will do to thee all that thou requirest: for all the city of my people doth know that thou art a virtuous woman. 

 A virtuous woman is a rare and precious treasure!

 We may think that such a woman does not exist, but she does.

 It is a fact that there may not be many of them.

 Women would say the same thing about us men.

 One thing is true to that man who has found a virtuous woman is richer than any king.

 This woman of wisdom is certainly a gift from the Lord.

 Pro 19:14  House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife is from the LORD.

 *****Pro 31:11  The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.

Pro 31:12  She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. 

 One of the greatest qualities of this godly wife is the fact that her husband can trust her.

 He knows that this woman is devoted first to the Lord, next to him, and then to the family.

 He will not question her motives, and he will not question her words.

 He understands that such a woman will draw the attention of other men, but he knows she will never betray him.

 His heart is secure in her faithfulness!

 She has enriched his life and meets his needs, and he has hers.

 The one thing the Old Testament is good at is showing us examples.

 It spends a lot of time on godly men and things that God will punish us for.

 This passage is an example for godly women.

 Here we see faithfulness and purity, and these are things God expects from all His children.

 A good wife will commit that she will never act in a way that could cause her to lose the trust of her husband, and the husband must make this same commitment to the Lord.

 The world we live in today is so full of immorality that any signal from a woman or a man can be seen as saying they are available.

 The commandments of God do not even exist in modern society.

 Wedding vows are not sacred.

 Adultery is glorified and seen as normal behavior.

 God's Word is still the truth: 1Jn_2:16  For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world.

 Our commitments to our spouses must be important, and they must be real!

 In marriage, both spouses must be attentive to each other's needs.

 The primary need of women is still love and affection!

 The primary need of the husband is reverence and respect.

 We are to put the needs of our spouses before our own needs.

 The husband-and-wife relationship must be a picture of our relationship with Jesus Christ!

 Rev 19:7  Let us be glad and rejoice, and give honour to him: for the marriage of the Lamb is come, and his wife hath made herself ready. 

Rev 19:8  And to her was granted that she should be arrayed in fine linen, clean and white: for the fine linen is the righteousness of saints. 

 To gain His bride, the Lord Jesus gave up everything to become a man, so that he could give His life to purchase His bride.

 We have no greater example of this for our own marriages!

 He gave Himself for us!

 Friendship with the world is committing Spiritual adultery.

 We are completely secure in the love of our Savior!

 Joh 10:28  And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand. 

Joh 10:29  My Father, which gave them me, is greater than all; and no man is able to pluck them out of my Father's hand. 

Joh 10:30  I and my Father are one.

 Rom 8:38  For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, 

Rom 8:39  Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. 

 *****Pro 31:13  She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. 

Pro 31:14  She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar. 

Pro 31:15  She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens. 

Pro 31:16  She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. 

 This is a woman of good works: 1Ti 2:10  But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works. 

 This home is founded on the commitment of a husband and wife and the love they share with their children.

 Her first concern is for her family to be well-clothed.

 She does not buy the clothes, nor does she buy the fabrics to make those clothes.

 She gets the raw materials, wool and flax to make the fabrics herself, and takes the time to get the best materials she can find.

 She works with her own hands.

 Wool comes from sheep and keeps the body warm when it's cold.

 Flax comes from the land and is used to make linen, which is for warmer days.

 In typology, the wool would indicate that the Church is to be a place of warm, loving interest in each member.

 Linen would represent righteous deeds of the members: Rev 19:8  And to her was granted that she should be arrayed in fine linen, clean and white: for the fine linen is the righteousness of saints. 

 She also provides food for her family, and she seeks out the best foods for them; she even brings it from afar.

 She is compared to ships and not a single ship.

 She eats the same food she prepares for all who live in her house.

 In typology, this is Spiritual food, and it comes from afar because it comes from Heaven, where our Lord Jesus Christ is today.

 It is the Lord Jesus who provides for the Church: Eph 5:29  For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: 

Eph 5:30  For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. 

 This is the food she prepares and puts upon the table.

 For breakfast, she gets up before all others so the food will be ready when they awaken.

 She does not call upon her maidens; she does these things herself.

 She makes sure all those in her home start the day with a good breakfast.

 She then plans the day's work for her maidens.

 In typology, the Church is to be full of believers who serve each other the food of the Word of God.

 Each member has a purpose, and they are to do that task as well as they are able, but they need the nourishment of God's Word, that Heavenly Manna from on high.

 Each member receives their portion that is needed to perform the service God has given him or her.

 After taking care of the needs of her family, she is free to do things that will increase the family budget.

 She is also a good businesswoman who invests wisely.

 She buys the things she needs without going into debt.

 After she buys this field, she immediately plants a vineyard.

 In typology, that field is an area outside the Church where we can do the work of God.

 A vineyard speaks of joy in that work.

 That field can represent the family of God because the Church is to be made up of families.

 Every family in the Church that lives for God is a great joy to our Heavenly Father.

 A strong Church is a blessing in the place where it is located.

 *****Pro 31:17  She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms. 

Pro 31:18  She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night. 

Pro 31:19  She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.

 Laziness is one of those things that God hates, but the virtuous woman is never lazy.

 We see her work begins before daylight and continues after all others are in bed.

 She is a symbol of strength, and in typology, she represents the Church, which is also to be a symbol of strength.

 Most of the churches in America are failing in this issue today, and attacks against the Church have increased because the Church appears to be so weak, and it is a shame.

 The Word of God is being twisted and turned till the truth has been removed, and this is another reason God will first judge the Church, and He will accept no excuses!

 The strength of the Church is in the Lord Jesus Christ, and He is no longer relevant in much of the Church of today.

 Eph 6:10  Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord, and in the power of his might.

 The Lord Jesus says: Rev_3:20  Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me.

 We see this wise woman is always evaluating the work she has done, and it must be the same for the Church.

 There is only one way that will work for the Church!

 Jer_6:16  Thus saith the LORD, Stand ye in the ways, and see, and ask for the old paths, where is the good way, and walk therein, and ye shall find rest for your souls. But they said, We will not walk therein.

 Much of the Church will no longer walk in the ways that work and have teamed up with the world in ways that are destroying much of the Church.

 We see the candle of this wise woman does not go out at night, and her house is spared from the disasters of the wicked.

 The Church must always be alert to the wickedness of the world and the wiles of the Devil.

 This wise woman sees that her clothes are in demand from others, and she sells some of them along with her produce that she grows.

 It is the same for the Church; the Gospel message is still in high demand from those who have never heard it, and the same Gospel that worked in the days of the Apostles will still work today.

 1Co 15:57  But thanks be to God, which giveth us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ. 

1Co 15:58  Therefore, my beloved brethren, be ye stedfast, unmoveable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, forasmuch as ye know that your labour is not in vain in the Lord.

 Just as this wise woman will be blessed the Bride of Christ will be blessed if it remains diligent in the work the Lord has given us to do.

 The Lord Jesus promises a reward for our labors!

 We will all stand before the Lord and give an account for what we have done, good or bad.

 1Co 3:8  Now he that planteth and he that watereth are one: and every man shall receive his own reward according to his own labour.

 *****Pro 31:20  She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. 

 We have seen that this wise woman cares much for her family, but she does not forget those who are poor and needy.

 She is compassionate and caring.

 We must understand that the Church must never be seen as standoffish and must share with the less fortunate.

 There are far too many people in our area who are spiritually poor and needy.

 The Church should extend its hand and help with spiritual blessings.

 There all always people who are in need, and there may be some inside the Church that we just have not noticed, but we should.

 It is not just the poor but also those members who have become too old to get out and those who, through sickness, can no longer get out.

 If we truly love the Lord, we will be compassionate and help others when we are able, and this includes the Church.

 In fact, this should be a ministry of the Church.

 Rom 12:13  Distributing to the necessity of saints; given to hospitality. 

 *****Pro 31:21  She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet. 

 She does not just think of today, but she prepares for the future.

 This cold, dead world does not bother her because she shows the warmth of love in her home.

 No matter what is going on outside, she has prepared her family for it.

 That word scarlet describes the quality of the things this wise woman has prepared for those times of uncertainty.

 The Church, full of love and warmth, will attract those who are seeking a place of rest.

 The Church must be prepared to face this cold and worsening world.

 The Bible tells us that this world will never improve, but there will always be souls that need saving.

 Life is far shorter than we realize, and we cannot predict the future except for those who love the Lord Jesus Christ.

 In Psalms 22, which refers to the crucifixion of the Lord Jesus, He says: Psa 22:6  But I am a worm, and no man; a reproach of men, and despised of the people. 

 That worm refers to a crimson worm that had to die to produce a dye used for the color scarlet.

 *****Pro 31:22  She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.

 This noble wife takes great pride in her appearance and in being attractive and appealing to her husband.

 She could buy anything she needed, but she prefers to make them herself.

 She uses the skills God has given to her, and she lives according to the Word of God.

 The Lord Jesus clothes His bride in the very best: Eph 5:25  Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 

Eph 5:26  That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 

Eph 5:27  That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.

 The Bride of Christ is clothed in fine linen: Rev 19:8  And to her was granted that she should be arrayed in fine linen, clean and white: for the fine linen is the righteousness of saints. 

Rev 19:14  And the armies which were in heaven followed him upon white horses, clothed in fine linen, white and clean. 

 As husbands, we should provide nice things for our wives if we are to be like Jesus Christ.

 *****Pro 31:23  Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land. 

 This husband was known in the community, and part of the reason was that his wife was so diligent and supportive of Him.

 A noble wife will help her husband, and many wives contribute to their husbands’ success.

 It is the same for the Bride of Christ.

 A diligent, hardworking Church will brag on the Lord Jesus.

 Eph 1:3  Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who hath blessed us with all spiritual blessings in heavenly places in Christ: 

Eph 1:4  According as he hath chosen us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before him in love: 

Eph 1:5  Having predestinated us unto the adoption of children by Jesus Christ to himself, according to the good pleasure of his will, 

Eph 1:6  To the praise of the glory of his grace, wherein he hath made us accepted in the beloved. 

 The Church has a high calling: Eph 4:1  I therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you that ye walk worthy of the vocation wherewith ye are called, 

Eph 4:2  With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love; 

Eph 4:3  Endeavouring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.

 He sits among the elders: Rev 5:5  And one of the elders saith unto me, Weep not: behold, the Lion of the tribe of Juda, the Root of David, hath prevailed to open the book, and to loose the seven seals thereof. 

 *****Pro 31:24  She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant. 

 This wise woman provides for her family.

She cares for the poor.

She encourages her husband and his position as head of the family.

 Now we see she wants to serve her family with her abilities but charges a price for her services.

 What she delivers is quality!

 We see there is nothing in Scripture that says a woman cannot work to help provide for her family.

 We know that her priority is for her family, and everything else is secondary to this first thing.

 1Ti 5:8  But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel. 

 Tit 2:4  That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, 

Tit 2:5  To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed. 

 We know that there is a price to be paid to be a Christian.

 We are to be Born Again into a godly life as much like Jesus Christ as we are able.

 The truth must be bought: Pro 23:23  Buy the truth, and sell it not; also wisdom, and instruction, and understanding.

 Truth is not some doctrine, but it consists of wisdom, instruction, and understanding.

 These things are more valuable in life than any material riches and are necessary to make life on earth have any value.

 This value is eternal and is connected to our Savior, Jesus Christ.

 The purchase price is the time we invest in the Word of God.

 Learning the truth of God takes time and effort, and the Holy Spirit.

 Rev 3:18  I counsel thee to buy of me gold tried in the fire, that thou mayest be rich; and white raiment, that thou mayest be clothed, and that the shame of thy nakedness do not appear; and anoint thine eyes with eyesalve, that thou mayest see. 

 We know that a sinner cannot pay anything to be saved.

 We can be saved only by grace: Eph 2:8  For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: 

Eph 2:9  Not of works, lest any man should boast. 

 *****Pro 31:25  Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. 

Pro 31:26  She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. 

Pro 31:27  She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. 

Pro 31:28  Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. 

Pro 31:29  Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. 

We have already seen where this wise woman is adorned in elegance and modesty, but her true beauty is inside her.

1Ti 2:9  In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; 

1Ti 2:10  But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works. 

She possesses strength, honor, and dignity.

She is esteemed and honored by others as a woman with a strong character.

This is a product of the wisdom of God, our Heavenly Father.

She is ready for her future and does not fear the unexpected.

She stands upon a firm foundation.

She has sown righteousness in her life and in her family, and God promises she will reap the same.

Gal 6:8  For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting. 

Living in the fear of the Lord brings great benefits.

Psa_103:2  Bless the LORD, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits:

The Church owes all strength and dignity to the Lord Jesus Christ.

Strength and dignity are the attributes of our Heavenly Father, and the Church should exhibit them.

The Church must always be the Lamb's wife who has made herself ready, dressed in fine linen for the Bridegroom.

Rev 19:7  Let us be glad and rejoice, and give honour to him: for the marriage of the Lamb is come, and his wife hath made herself ready. 

Rev 19:8  And to her was granted that she should be arrayed in fine linen, clean and white: for the fine linen is the righteousness of saints.

She offers helpful and reliable counsel.

When she opens her mouth, only wisdom comes from it.

Col 4:6  Let your speech be alway with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer every man. 

She is always watchful for anything or anyone who would harm her family and never passive in this area.

Nothing escapes her attention!

Her children want the world to know how precious their mother is to them.

Today, not many children honor their parents, but they should know that there is nothing more precious than loving parents.

Her husband praises her and expresses great appreciation for the support she has always given him.

Her husband knows he could not have chosen a better spouse for himself and his family.

Her driving force has always been the "fear of the Lord".

Pro 1:7  The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge: but fools despise wisdom and instruction. 

It is no different for the Church!

Only through the reverence of our Heavenly Father and the Lord Jesus Christ is it able to express itself in a way that will reap the praise of God.

Heb 11:6  But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.

Joh 14:6  Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. 

Joh 14:7  If ye had known me, ye should have known my Father also: and from henceforth ye know him, and have seen him. 

*****Pro 31:30  Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised. 

Pro 31:31  Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates. 

This last passage should strike a note with us because the Lord Jesus said deceit is the main ingredient in these last days.

Mat 24:3  And as he sat upon the mount of Olives, the disciples came unto him privately, saying, Tell us, when shall these things be? and what shall be the sign of thy coming, and of the end of the world? 

Mat 24:4  And Jesus answered and said unto them, Take heed that no man deceive you. 

This wise woman does not focus on deception.

She knows that personality and popularity do not always reveal a person's true character.

People are not always genuine.

Many people today are masters at deceit, trying to get what they want from others, and the world is full of them at this time.

She can stand her ground because of her relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ.

It is our fear of the Lord who will lead us in the right direction.

She has given her life to raising her family and being a good wife to her husband.

No reward in this world can be given for the work she has done, for there is no work more important than the work she has done every day.

It is the same for the Church that remains the Bride of Christ.

There is no more important work than that of the Church that remains with the Lord Jesus Christ.

Heb 12:28  Wherefore we receiving a kingdom which cannot be moved, let us have grace, whereby we may serve God acceptably with reverence and godly fear: 

Heb 12:29  For our God is a consuming fire. 

It is the "fear of the Lord" that is the secret to a successful, satisfying, and blessed life here and then the great rewards of our Heavenly Home.

The Church has one job, and it is to remain close to Jesus Christ and do the work He has given us to do.

There is no greater work than this!

Amen

The Church Must Deal with Moral Virtues

 Wisdom's Instructions on Moral Virtues

 Book of Proverbs Chapter 18

 We can say that virtue is acting according to the "Will of God" for our lives.

 The Bible tells us that only fools walk outside the will of God!

 Rom_12:2  And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.

 1Jn_2:17  And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever.

 1Pe 4:2  That he no longer should live the rest of his time in the flesh to the lusts of men, but to the will of God. 

 Each of us must come to understand what the will of the Lord is!

 Eph 5:17  Wherefore be ye not unwise, but understanding what the will of the Lord is.

 We should come to an understanding that:

 1) We should stand in awe of our Creator, who is wise, powerful, and loving.

2) We can entrust our entire lives to our Almighty God.

3) We can rejoice in the wonder of His salvation.

4) We can rest in peace while the world goes through turmoil after turmoil.

5) That God holds people accountable for their sin.

6) That God opposes the pride of mankind.

 Man, in his pride, desires to run his own life and refuses to recognize that God is God of all creation, but He has a humble Spirit.

 We must avoid having a sinful attitude.

 We must understand that the Book of Proverbs declares that fools walk a path of death.

 *****Pro 18:1  Through desire a man, having separated himself, seeketh and intermeddleth with all wisdom.

Pro 18:2  A fool hath no delight in understanding, but that his heart may discover itself.

Pro 18:3  When the wicked cometh, then cometh also contempt, and with ignominy reproach.  

 There are many interpretations of this verse, but the most accurate interpretation seems to be that people who think only of themselves, who are selfish and antisocial, are fools.

 They are foolish because they have a great desire to live as they wish, but they will meddle in the affairs of all others.

 We are to separate ourselves from the world: 2Co_6:17  Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you,

 We are not to live a life like an isolationist, which is foolish behavior!

 Gen 2:18  And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. 

 We are social people, and we will not develop properly by self-discipline in solitude.

 To depend upon us for all things is not beneficial, and it is not good, but to do this while we intermeddle in the business of all others is downright sinful.

 Pro 20:3  It is an honour for a man to cease from strife: but every fool will be meddling. 

 Pro 21:24  Proud and haughty scorner is his name, who dealeth in proud wrath. 

 What is being obstinate? It is stubborn, having only your own opinion, your own purpose, your own resolutions.

 Not yielding to reason nor in arguments. Having your own way at the expense of all others.

 This fool has no desire to listen to what others have to say, as they have made up their minds that they are right and everyone else is wrong.

 They are interested in only their own opinion.

 They will not listen to the arguments of others.

 They are so full of pride in themselves that they want to impress others with what they have to say.

 These are not people who should be allowed to stay in the Church.

 The Church is far better off without wicked people in the Church.

 This is not to say that we should police all who come into the doors of the Church, but the Bible does say we will know them by their fruit.

 One pastor said that these are blessed subtractions.

 Wicked people may contribute to some organizations but not to the Church.

 They bring contempt to the Church.

They bring ignominy or shame to the Church.

They bring reproaches or disgrace to the Church.

 They will also bring this same damage to themselves and to their families, unless they repent.

 It is the wisdom of God that will bring blessings.

 *****Pro 18:4  The words of a man's mouth are as deep waters, and the wellspring of wisdom as a flowing brook.

Pro 18:5  It is not good to accept the person of the wicked, to overthrow the righteous in judgment. 

Pro 18:6  A fool's lips enter into contention, and his mouth calleth for strokes. 

Pro 18:7  A fool's mouth is his destruction, and his lips are the snare of his soul. 

Pro 18:8  The words of a talebearer are as wounds, and they go down into the innermost parts of the belly. 

 It is the mouths of those who fear the Lord that will edify the Church.

 Pro 20:5  Counsel in the heart of man is like deep water; but a man of understanding will draw it out. 

 Joh 4:14  But whosoever drinketh of the water that I shall give him shall never thirst; but the water that I shall give him shall be in him a well of water springing up into everlasting life.

 In contrast, if that wicked person is allowed to stay in the Church, then there will be problems.

 Pro 10:11  The mouth of a righteous man is a well of life: but violence covereth the mouth of the wicked. 

 When we accept this person, we are showing partiality and not considering the right and wrong of it.

 Anytime we show partiality to the wicked, we are wrongly judging the righteous man!

 These wicked people may seem to be very wise in the Scriptures, but so was Satan.

 Mat 4:6  And saith unto him, If thou be the Son of God, cast thyself down: for it is written, He shall give his angels charge concerning thee: and in their hands they shall bear thee up, lest at any time thou dash thy foot against a stone. 

Mat 4:7  Jesus said unto him, It is written again, Thou shalt not tempt the Lord thy God.

 The Bible teaches us against such things.

 Psa 82:2  How long will ye judge unjustly, and accept the persons of the wicked? Selah. 

 This wicked person may be the richest man in the congregation, but we are to act according to the Word of God.

 These things have divided many Houses of Worship today.

 The Bible says we are never to show partiality to the wicked, nor are we to speak against the righteous and the innocent.

 Fools bring on most of their problems because they cannot control their speech.

 In most cases, it is their quarreling over matters we consider evil that sets them apart from the Church.

 Many churches today are accepting the testimony of certain movements when there is no repentance, which goes against the Word of God, when the Word of God is the foundation of the Church and not the words of man.

 God calls for repentance!

 Jhn_3:3  Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.

Jhn_3:7  Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye must be born again.

1Pe_1:23  Being born again, not of corruptible seed, but of incorruptible, by the word of God, which liveth and abideth for ever.

 Many denominations are quarreling over these things today when the Lord Jesus says, "ye must be Born Again".

 When we throw the Lord Jesus out of the Church, we have no Church!

 We are warned: A fool's mouth ends in destruction!

 Their senseless, uncontrolled words will be their downfall.

 If they could keep their mouths shut, they might even fool the Church.

 Pro 17:28  Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise: and he that shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding.

 Talebearers or those who go around whispering about others also cause divisions in the Church.

 We call it gossip, and it will destroy the reputation of the righteous man.

 Spreading rumors inside the Church is an abomination to the One we come together to worship.

In fact, the reason we gather together is to worship the Living God!

 Pro 6:16  These six things doth the LORD hate: yea, seven are an abomination unto him: 

Pro 6:17  A proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood, 

Pro 6:18  An heart that deviseth wicked imaginations, feet that be swift in running to mischief, 

Pro 6:19  A false witness that speaketh lies, and he that soweth discord among brethren. 

 We must avoid selfish attitudes and sinful words that hinder our relationships with our brothers and sisters in Christ and cause division in the Church.

 We are to love one another and seek our security in the Lord, who is the foundation of the Church.

 *****Pro 18:9  He also that is slothful in his work is brother to him that is a great waster. 

Pro 18:10  The name of the LORD is a strong tower: the righteous runneth into it, and is safe. 

 Being slothful is being lazy, being idle, and it is destructive!

 Those who are wise are people who trust in the Lord Jesus Christ for life now and eternal life in the future.

 This is a never-ending life of "Grace".

 Fools trust in themselves, some in their wealth, and others in this corrupt world.

 I used to think our own government, no matter which party was in charge, would be far above corruption, but I now know this is not so after seeing the Democrats do everything they could to destroy are nation and our Republic.

 Things are getting worse just as the Lord has said.

 2Ti 3:12  Yea, and all that will live godly in Christ Jesus shall suffer persecution. 

2Ti 3:13  But evil men and seducers shall wax worse and worse, deceiving, and being deceived. 

2Ti 3:14  But continue thou in the things which thou hast learned and hast been assured of, knowing of whom thou hast learned them; 

 We can blame a lot of these problems on the Church because the Church has become weak and lazy, and slothful.

 The Church has become a great waster of the work the Lord Jesus has done to save us!

 Many in the Church purposely tear down rather than build and preserve the Gospel.

 This is why God will first judge the Church before He judges the world.

 God will separate the goats from the sheep in the House of God, and the goats know who they are, but the sheep have become far too docile to take a stand on the Lord Jesus and the Gospel.

 We can trust that our Lord God knows what He is doing and run to Him for safety.

 God is The Almighty God.

He is the great I Am Yahweh.

He is Jehovah.

He is the Lord God.

He is wonderful.

He is the everlasting Father.

He is the Prince of Peace.

He is our Counselor.

He is the High and Lofty One.

He is the Lord Our Righteousness.

He is Emmanuel.

He is the Alpha, the Omega, the beginning, and the End.

He is my Savior and Redeemer.

He is my Strong Tower of safety.

He is my Rock and Fortress.

 Those who reject these things are fools.

 *****Pro 18:11  The rich man's wealth is his strong city, and as an high wall in his own conceit. 

 There are not enough riches in this entire world that can save those who reject the Lord Jesus Christ from the wrath of my Heavenly Father.

 The rich think that their wealth can save them from anything, and they are wrong when it comes to the wrath of God.

 1Ti 6:17  Charge them that are rich in this world, that they be not highminded, nor trust in uncertain riches, but in the living God, who giveth us richly all things to enjoy; 

1Ti 6:18  That they do good, that they be rich in good works, ready to distribute, willing to communicate; 

1Ti 6:19  Laying up in store for themselves a good foundation against the time to come, that they may lay hold on eternal life. 

 To all others, the Holy Spirit says.

 *****Pro 18:12  Before destruction the heart of man is haughty, and before honour is humility. 

 The rest of the world seeks salvation in their own abilities.

 That word haughty means proud and disdainful with contempt for all those who trust the Lord.

 They are proud people who trust only in themselves.

 In their own strength, in their own intelligence, in their own abilities.

 As fools, they will not even be able to stand against the storms of this life, and it will break them.

 Pro 16:18  Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall. 

 *****Pro 18:13  He that answereth a matter before he heareth it, it is folly and shame unto him.

 We must first hear the whole story before we can speak to a matter.

 Only a fool thinks he has all the answers!

 This is being arrogant and putting yourself above others.

 A wise man will wait until he has heard the whole story of the matter and then see if he can help in some way.

 Only God and His Word have all the answers to life!

 *****Pro 18:14  The spirit of a man will sustain his infirmity; but a wounded spirit who can bear?

 Our spirit can only sustain us if we live according to Christian principles.

 Christian principles give us the strength to look past our troubles to our future, and this will make all our troubles bearable.

 Pro 17:22  A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones. 

 Those who are deep into depression and despair are difficult to rescue.

 *****Pro 18:15  The heart of the prudent getteth knowledge; and the ear of the wise seeketh knowledge. 

 God has no respect for those who are ignorant except for the fact that He will send someone to tell the ignorant the truth so they can decide for themselves.

 If a person desires to avoid harm to body, mind, and soul, then that person must acquire knowledge both in relation to things of this world, which are material, and seek spiritual things that are from Heaven.

 Most of us who have tasted the wisdom of God are now trying to find out more.

 We know we need to grow in wisdom, but it requires our faith, our belief in the truth of God!

 Jas 1:5  If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him. 

Jas 1:6  But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed. 

Jas 1:7  For let not that man think that he shall receive any thing of the Lord. 

 If we truly begin a search for wisdom, it will lead us to fear of the Lord, the place of true wisdom.

 1) Our hearts must be dedicated to obtaining this knowledge.

2) Our ears are open to receive this great knowledge.

 Eph 1:17  That the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give unto you the spirit of wisdom and revelation in the knowledge of him: 

Eph 1:18  The eyes of your understanding being enlightened; that ye may know what is the hope of his calling, and what the riches of the glory of his inheritance in the saints, 

 Our security can only be found in the Lord Jesus Christ.

 Those who reject the Lord Jesus Christ have nowhere else to turn for lifesaving knowledge!

 They are open to all the destructive forces in this world, which is the domain of Satan.

 Eph 2:1  And you hath he quickened, who were dead in trespasses and sins; 

Eph 2:2  Wherein in time past ye walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that now worketh in the children of disobedience: 

 Joh 12:31  Now is the judgment of this world: now shall the prince of this world be cast out. 

 Only those who are filled with God the Holy Spirit is secure in this world and the world that is to come.

 2Co 4:10  Always bearing about in the body the dying of the Lord Jesus, that the life also of Jesus might be made manifest in our body. 

2Co 4:11  For we which live are alway delivered unto death for Jesus' sake, that the life also of Jesus might be made manifest in our mortal flesh. 

 God has a purpose for everything we face in this life, every problem and every difficulty.

 This does not mean He causes all our problems; that is what Satan does.

 We must keep our focus on Heaven and not on our problems!

 2Co 12:9  And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. 

2Co 12:10  Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses for Christ's sake: for when I am weak, then am I strong. 

 When we become too ashamed to ask for God's help, we will suffer more than we could have.

 Our Heavenly Father does much more than just listen to us; He will answer every prayer that reaches into Heaven.

 We must live our lives in such a fashion as to make sure our prayers reach Heaven, and it begins when we have the "Fear of the Lord".

 We must never seek an unfair advantage over others, because God will not allow it.

 We must seek that God's righteousness is at work in us as we go about the business of serving the Lord!

 God's wisdom will affect our behavior toward others!

 *****Pro 18:16  A man's gift maketh room for him, and bringeth him before great men. 

Pro 18:17  He that is first in his own cause seemeth just; but his neighbour cometh and searcheth him. 

Pro 18:18  The lot causeth contentions to cease, and parteth between the mighty. 

Pro 18:19  A brother offended is harder to be won than a strong city: and their contentions are like the bars of a castle. 

 It is a proven fact that generosity and politeness have opened many doors.

 There are two kinds of gifts, the gift of selfishness and the gift of kindness.

 A man sometimes bestows a favor on another to get back something of a higher value. This gift is a bribe.

 Bribery is the cause of much corruption in our world.

 The true children of God will not offer bribes, nor will they accept them!

 The gift of kindness is the true gift and is the real power.

 It makes room for the giver in the heart of the receiver, and it bringeth him before truly great men. Great men recognize and honour the generous.

 We may be able to use gifts here on this earth to help open doors, but we never need gifts to go before the Lord!

 The door of access to our Heavenly Father is always open to His children!

 We must be very careful when we hear something that seems bad about someone.

 God's children must hear both sides of each story.

 The first one to plead their case usually seems right. When we hear from the first side, we often feel that the first one to plead their case seems right, and we are quick to take their side.

 Our neighbor may come and judge us for our quick reaction without hearing the story from the other side.

 Our judgment may be different once we have heard from the other side.

 We may have to demand cross-examination of both parties before we can know the truth.

 In the Bible, the casting of lots was used to find answers and make decisions, and they had every faith that God would be involved.

 Pro 16:33  The lot is cast into the lap; but the whole disposing thereof is of the LORD. 

 As true believers, we should be able to settle disputes just as peacefully as they did; we supposedly have the mind of Christ and have the Holy Spirit living within us.

 We should never turn to the world for help!

 As we witness to the lost, it is important that we argue and defend the truth of the Scriptures before all whom we may face, giving exactly what God has said and the meaning of it.

 As Christians, we are wise to do everything we can to prevent conflicts in the Church before they arise.

 Once it has taken place and relationships are harmed, it will be hard for them to be restored.

 People who are angered and hurt are difficult to win back.

 These things divide churches if not solved before they get out of hand.

 We see that to please God, we must make it clear that we cannot be bought; we are not for sale.

We must never take sides based on partial information.

We must handle differences of opinion according to the Scriptures.

We should do everything we can to live peaceably with others.

 *****Pro 18:20  A man's belly shall be satisfied with the fruit of his mouth; and with the increase of his lips shall he be filled. 

Pro 18:21  Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.

 There is sometimes great power in the words that we say.

 We need to think before we speak and try not to wound the spirits of those around us.

 Some people indeed make their living speaking words, and most of them do not care what they say if it gets a laugh or causes some dispute.

They just laugh at those who do not think the way they do

 It is far better to seek to encourage and build up people.

 We are commanded to show respect for each other.

 Heb 10:24  And let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works:

 What we say comes from the heart, so impure words come from an impure heart.

 Pro 4:23  Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life. 

 Each of us is responsible for our own spiritual growth.

We are responsible for getting our children headed down the right path.

Pro_22:6  Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.

The families of our nation are failing in this command of God.

If we keep our minds focused upon the Lord, we will think right.

Php 4:8  Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. 

There is certainly death in the power of the tongue, but there can also be life if we think before we speak.

The great example we have before us is the Word of Life, the Love Letter that God has given to us.

God just speaks, and things happen.

God does not speak bad things because it is out of His character and goes against His goodness, but He does not hesitate to tell us the truth of this world and the world that is to come.

*****Pro 18:22  Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD. 

When we find that wife that God designed for us, we know we have a good thing.

This is also pleasing to our Heavenly Father, and He will bless this marriage.

Unfortunately, not every wife is a good wife, and not every husband is a good husband.

To be honest, we will not know how to choose a good wife until we become children of God.

Besides salvation, the choosing of a good wife is one of the most important decisions we will make in this life.

What does God actually say: 2Co 6:14  Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? 

We should understand that God ordains each marriage for life, so we must be wise when we are searching for a wife.

1Co 7:10  And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: 

1Co 7:39  The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.

These things go for the husband also.

If our marriage does not work out, we must be careful to observe the Word of God and allow God to decide if we need another wife or another husband.

God is very good at leading two people together and making it a blessing.

*****Pro 18:23  The poor useth intreaties; but the rich answereth roughly. 

In the Bible, the poor are those because of circumstances beyond their control, cannot work to support themselves.

God has very little pity on those who can work but are too lazy to do so.

God has very little pity on those who cannot work because of sin.

Eph 4:28  Let him that stole steal no more: but rather let him labour, working with his hands the thing which is good, that he may have to give to him that needeth. 

Those whom God has allowed to become rich are to help those who are poor.

1Ti 6:17  Charge them that are rich in this world, that they be not highminded, nor trust in uncertain riches, but in the living God, who giveth us richly all things to enjoy; 

1Ti 6:18  That they do good, that they be rich in good works, ready to distribute, willing to communicate; 

1Ti 6:19  Laying up in store for themselves a good foundation against the time to come, that they may lay hold on eternal life.

How to use our resources is another thing we need the wisdom of God to do righteously.

*****Pro 18:24  A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother. 

We should understand that one true friend is far more valuable than many who just claim to be our friends.

The one who gave us our first cigarette was not our friend.

The one who gave us that drink of alcohol was not our friend.

The one who gave us drugs was not our friend.

The one who talked us into doing something foolish was not our friend.

A true friend will stick by you no matter the circumstances.

Even in this, we have the Lord Jesus Christ as our example because He is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

It is the Lord Jesus Christ who died in our place so we can live an eternal life.

Nothing can separate us from our Savior!

Rom 8:35  Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? 

Rom 8:38  For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, 

Rom 8:39  Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. 

God bless the Word of God that gives us such great wisdom from the only source of true wisdom.

Amen

Loose Living and Lawsuits in the Church

 Lawsuits and Loose Living

 1 Corinthians Chapter 6

 As we learned last week, there must be discipline in the Church that belongs to Jesus Christ. If we are not willing to discipline sinful members, we are not being obedient to the Word of God, and we are lacking in faith.

 Heb 11:6  But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him. 

 Today, we get into another subject about church members and the saints of God.

 A “lawsuit” is described as a suit in law for the recovery of a supposed right, a process in law instituted by a party to compel another to do him justice.

 We simply say legal disputes.

 We should understand that this passage deals only with disputes between Christian brothers and sisters.

 It has nothing to do with unbelievers or disputes between unbelievers!

 In the end, we will see that a true believer might ought to suffer wrong rather than risk doing wrong.

 The Apostle Paul will lead us through this thought, one question at a time.

 The first question.

 *****1Co 6:1  Dare any of you, having a matter against another, go to law before the unjust, and not before the saints? 

 What Paul is saying is: “How dare you saints of God go to unbelievers to settle any issue you have with another saint of God"?

 A Christian can expect no justice from unbelievers, and two Christians might easily decide small matters in a private and friendly manner.

 There is no real reason why two believers should not be able to settle a dispute themselves!

 Believers should not be disputing and arguing over rights and authority, nor the things and possessions of this world.

 Christians are to use the things they have possession of to further the cause of Christ.

 Paul called those secular laws unjust, and most of those judges were ruled by Rome or appointed by Rome and were certainly unjust.

 Christians were hated in most places, and it would be hard for Christians to get a fair trial.

 In reality, when believers try to settle disputes with other believers before the world, it damages the name of Jesus Christ.

 Jesus taught: Joh 13:34  A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another. 

Joh 13:35  By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another. 

 If we truly love one another, we will not cause each other harm in any way.

 Christians have the Holy Spirit living within them, and the fruit of the Spirit is:

 Gal 5:22  But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, 

Gal 5:23  Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. 

Gal 5:24  And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. 

Gal 5:25  If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. 

Those Christians who do not possess the “Fruit” of the Spirit may not be saved.

 The word “fruit” is singular, so each Christian should possess all the traits that are mentioned here.

 The world is a terrible place because it does not have the Holy Spirit or the fruit of the Holy Spirit.

 When Christians take their disputes with other Christians to the world, we make the Lord Jesus look foolish.

 He has already given us the means of solving issues with each other.

 Mat 18:15  Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother. 

Mat 18:16  But if he will not hear thee, then take with thee one or two more, that in the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established. 

Mat 18:17  And if he shall neglect to hear them, tell it unto the church: but if he neglect to hear the church, let him be unto thee as an heathen man and a publican. 

Mat 18:18  Verily I say unto you, Whatsoever ye shall bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever ye shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven. 

 The problems in any church can be resolved if we live and learn as the Word of God instructs us.

 Our lifestyle must not resemble the lifestyle of the world!

 *****1Co 6:2  Do ye not know that the saints shall judge the world? and if the world shall be judged by you, are ye unworthy to judge the smallest matters? 

1Co 6:3  Know ye not that we shall judge angels? how much more things that pertain to this life? 

 What Paul is saying is that all this information is in the Bible; if you would just read and study it, you would know what God said about all these things.

 This verse tells us that believers are to judge "all disputes" between themselves.

 We should be able to judge the smallest matters, which are the things that pertain to this life.

 We must never take these things to the world!

 We will one day judge the world!

 We will one day judge and govern angels in the next world, which we may not understand as of yet.

 We lower ourselves and lose our dignity as the saints of God when we take our church problems to the world!

 The word judge as it is used here means to govern and administer the affairs of the Church, which the world is to have no part of.

 Jesus Christ told the Apostles that they would oversee Israel during the Millennial Kingdom.

 Mat 19:28  And Jesus said unto them, Verily I say unto you, That ye which have followed me, in the regeneration when the Son of man shall sit in the throne of his glory, ye also shall sit upon twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel. 

 Paul tells the Church that we will govern and oversee the Gentiles during the Millennial Kingdom.

 Dan 7:22  Until the Ancient of days came, and judgment was given to the saints of the most High; and the time came that the saints possessed the kingdom. 

 Rev 20:4  And I saw thrones, and they sat upon them, and judgment was given unto them: and I saw the souls of them that were beheaded for the witness of Jesus, and for the word of God, and which had not worshipped the beast, neither his image, neither had received his mark upon their foreheads, or in their hands; and they lived and reigned with Christ a thousand years. 

 There may be judging, which is governing, supervision, and oversight throughout eternity.

 Verse 2 says the world will be judged by the Church that the Lord Jesus Christ is the Head of.

 Those who reject the Lord Jesus will never live the life of a Christian, so how could they ever judge the life of a Christian?

 Judgment can only come when the Word of God is the "Standard" for all laws.

 This "Standard" is rejected by the world of today!

 We should be able to judge the things of this life!

 *****1Co 6:4  If then ye have judgments of things pertaining to this life, set them to judge who are least esteemed in the church.

 If we care for the Lord Jesus Christ, we would suffer ourselves rather than bring reproach to the Christian name!

 Unbelievers are as nothing to the Church.

Unbelievers are of no account in judging matters in the Church.

Unbelievers are not held in high esteem within the Church.

Unbelievers have no standing in the Church.

 Why would we ever take matters of the Church to an unbeliever?

 They do not live the life of Christ, nor do they intend to.

 They do not have the Holy Spirit to rely on!

 This Church at Corinth had fallen from Grace and needed to return to the truth of God.

 When problems arise between believers about everyday things, other believers ought to be able to give solutions.

 These things did not require any Spiritual insight to come to the proper conclusion.

 *****1Co 6:5  I speak to your shame. Is it so, that there is not a wise man among you? no, not one that shall be able to judge between his brethren?

1Co 6:6  But brother goeth to law with brother, and that before the unbelievers.  

 Salvation is our great deliverance from the guilt and pollution of sin and can only be accomplished by the Lord Jesus Christ.

 Heb 2:3  How shall we escape, if we neglect so great salvation; which at the first began to be spoken by the Lord, and was confirmed unto us by them that heard him; 

Heb 2:4  God also bearing them witness, both with signs and wonders, and with divers miracles, and gifts of the Holy Ghost, according to his own will? 

 Once we are saved, we find that the things of this world have little, or no value as compared to the things of Heaven.

 Knowing this, why in the world would we take our issues with other brothers and sisters to a court of non-believers?

 Surely there are plenty of people in the Church who are competent to settle such disputes.

 If we lack wisdom, all we need to do is ask God!

 Jas_1:5  If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.

 There should be nothing that comes between two children of God that needs to be settled in a court of unbelievers!

 If we feel that outside courts would be better able to handle simple disputes between two Christians, it only proves that their worldliness is stronger than their Christianity.

 We are also saying that there are no wise men in the Church who understand our problem.

 Then we do not accept that the wisdom of God is far superior to the wisdom of this world!

 *****1Co 6:7  Now therefore there is utterly a fault among you, because ye go to law one with another. Why do ye not rather take wrong? why do ye not rather suffer yourselves to be defrauded? 

1Co 6:8  Nay, ye do wrong, and defraud, and that your brethren.

 Rather than cause friction in the Church, why not just give in?

 Why not suffer being wronged and cheated rather than wronging or cheating another brother in Christ?

 Just going to an outside court is defeating the principles of the Church of Jesus Christ.

 Just going outside the Church ruins our testimony for Jesus Christ.

 Rom 12:17  Recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all men. 

Rom 12:18  If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men. 

 1Pe 3:9  Not rendering evil for evil, or railing for railing: but contrariwise blessing; knowing that ye are thereunto called, that ye should inherit a blessing. 

1Pe 3:10  For he that will love life, and see good days, let him refrain his tongue from evil, and his lips that they speak no guile: 

1Pe 3:11  Let him eschew evil, and do good; let him seek peace, and ensue it. 

 Obviously, these things concern disputes between two members of the same church and not the broken laws of the world.

 No doubt that some of these Corinthians were guilty.

They wanted some of the things their brothers had.

They did not steal them outright but sought them by outside legal means.

The world may have called it legal, but they were cheating and stealing from God and God would deal with them.

 The Lord Jesus said: Mat 15:19  For out of the heart proceed evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, blasphemies: 

Mat 15:20  These are the things which defile a man:

 Can church members who do such things really be saved?

 We can surely say they are unrighteous, and we could question their character.

 *****1Co 6:9  Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, 

1Co 6:10  Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God. 

 We should be able to see that some of these things are things that God will condemn and reject.

 We can expect that nothing can save a person who practices these sins.

 We cannot defy God and get into His House!

 As Christians, we should know these things!

 Since God is righteous, His Church must be righteous to be accepted by Him!

 Many people profess religion.

Many people practice religion.

Many people talk about religion.

Many people defend their beliefs about religion.

 So, they live their lives according to religion.

 However, Christianity is not about religion but is about a "relationship" with God!

 God's "Grace" is not given to us as a free ticket to sin.

 There are very few people in the many churches who think that God will reject them!

 Most church members think God will accept them, and many of them are wrong.

 The Lord Jesus taught by parables, and there is one we should pay attention to.

 The Parable of the Ten Virgins

Mat 25:1  Then shall the kingdom of heaven be likened unto ten virgins, which took their lamps, and went forth to meet the bridegroom. 

Mat 25:2  And five of them were wise, and five were foolish. 

Mat 25:3  They that were foolish took their lamps, and took no oil with them: 

Mat 25:4  But the wise took oil in their vessels with their lamps. 

Mat 25:5  While the bridegroom tarried, they all slumbered and slept. 

Mat 25:6  And at midnight there was a cry made, Behold, the bridegroom cometh; go ye out to meet him. 

Mat 25:7  Then all those virgins arose, and trimmed their lamps. 

Mat 25:8  And the foolish said unto the wise, Give us of your oil; for our lamps are gone out. 

Mat 25:9  But the wise answered, saying, Not so; lest there be not enough for us and you: but go ye rather to them that sell, and buy for yourselves. 

Mat 25:10  And while they went to buy, the bridegroom came; and they that were ready went in with him to the marriage: and the door was shut. 

Mat 25:11  Afterward came also the other virgins, saying, Lord, Lord, open to us. 

Mat 25:12  But he answered and said, Verily I say unto you, I know you not. 

 If this oil represents the Holy Spirit, then Jesus is saying that only about half of the Church is truly saved.

 Remember, God will judge the Church before He judges this world!

 Many believe that deception sins are not fatal, but they seem to forget what being a Christian is about.

 2Jn_1:7  For many deceivers are entered into the world, who confess not that Jesus Christ is come in the flesh. This is a deceiver and an antichrist.

2Jn 1:8  Look to yourselves, that we lose not those things which we have wrought, but that we receive a full reward. 

2Jn 1:9  Whosoever transgresseth, and abideth not in the doctrine of Christ, hath not God. He that abideth in the doctrine of Christ, he hath both the Father and the Son.

 Gal 6:7  Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. 

Gal 6:8  For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting. 

 God simply says that none of these persons shall inherit the Kingdom of God.

 We should know these things!

 *****1Co 6:11  And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God. 

If we truly give ourselves to the Lord Jesus, then those sins of our old life have been forgiven, and God will never bring them up in our relationship!

Rom 6:17  But God be thanked, that ye were the servants of sin, but ye have obeyed from the heart that form of doctrine which was delivered you. 

Rom 6:18  Being then made free from sin, ye became the servants of righteousness. 

Rom 6:19  I speak after the manner of men because of the infirmity of your flesh: for as ye have yielded your members servants to uncleanness and to iniquity unto iniquity; even so now yield your members servants to righteousness unto holiness. 

We cannot be saved by anyone other than the Lord Jesus Christ!

Rev 1:5  And from Jesus Christ, who is the faithful witness, and the first begotten of the dead, and the prince of the kings of the earth. Unto him that loved us, and washed us from our sins in his own blood, 

Rev 1:6  And hath made us kings and priests unto God and his Father; to him be glory and dominion for ever and ever. Amen. 

We can then be "Born Again" into the family of God!

Tit 3:5  Not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to his mercy he saved us, by the washing of regeneration, and renewing of the Holy Ghost; 

Tit 3:6  Which he shed on us abundantly through Jesus Christ our Saviour; 

Tit 3:7  That being justified by his grace, we should be made heirs according to the hope of eternal life. 

We were once dead in trespasses and sins: Eph 2:1  And you hath he quickened, who were dead in trespasses and sins; 

Eph 2:2  Wherein in time past ye walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that now worketh in the children of disobedience: 

We cannot approach God without faith: Jas 5:15  And the prayer of faith shall save the sick, and the Lord shall raise him up; and if he have committed sins, they shall be forgiven him.

That faith must be in the work that the Lord Jesus Christ did to save us: Rom 10:9  That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. 

Rom 10:10  For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. 

The Lord will save everyone who calls upon Him with a pure heart!

Rom 10:13  For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved. 

We know what we were before we met Jesus Christ, and when we see others doing those same things or similar things, then we know they are not saved.

This is not judging, this is knowing them by their fruit!

We cannot say we are saved unless we have a salvation experience!

It is a once-for-all event because the Scriptures tell us this.

We are not to return to the world, and its sin pollution. The worst of all pollution.

God the Father takes our "faith" in the Lord Jesus Christ and counts our faith as righteousness.

Rom 10:17  So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God. 

We do not have any righteousness of our own.

We are still imperfect.

We know we are short of God's glory.

We must surrender our new life to God the Son, the Lord Jesus Christ, and worship Him.

It is these things that honor God the Father, and He will gift us with God the Holy Spirit.

The Lord Jesus takes care of our past.

The Lord Jesus takes care of our present.

The Lord Jesus takes care of our future.

Rom 5:2  By whom also we have access by faith into this grace wherein we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God. 

Are all things now lawful to us as the Saints of God?

*****1Co 6:12  All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient: all things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any. 

The Holy Spirit is not given to us to do as we please!

We have the Holy Spirit living within us to give us freedom to serve the Lord Jesus, which is perfect freedom.

We are free from the law of sin and death: Rom 8:2  For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus hath made me free from the law of sin and death. 

1Pe 2:16  As free, and not using your liberty for a cloke of maliciousness, but as the servants of God. 

We have complete freedom to do the things that are in God's will for us.

When God created this world, we live in He said that it was all good.

Gen 1:31  And God saw every thing that he had made, and, behold, it was very good. And the evening and the morning were the sixth day.

 No actions of any Saint of God are unlawful if they are in accordance with God's design in creation.

We should understand that desires are a function of our bodies that God made. So, in this sense, we have complete freedom.

1) We must understand that many things in this world are neither worthwhile nor are they profitable.

2) We must understand that many things in this world are not wise. Some things will enslave us and not bring self-respect.

We are never to become slaves to anything on this earth, which would include such things as drugs or alcohol, or substance abuse.

We are to preserve our self-control to control the things upon this earth and not be controlled by any of them.

Our good health and our emotions depend upon us being in control of our bodies and our spirits.

Indulgence in any of the appetites of the body is one of the greatest sins of any believer.

Rom 6:12  Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal body, that ye should obey it in the lusts thereof. 

Rom 6:13  Neither yield ye your members as instruments of unrighteousness unto sin: but yield yourselves unto God, as those that are alive from the dead, and your members as instruments of righteousness unto God. 

Rom 6:14  For sin shall not have dominion over you: for ye are not under the law, but under grace. 

1Co 9:25  And every man that striveth for the mastery is temperate in all things. Now they (sinners, the unsaved) do it to obtain a corruptible crown; but we an incorruptible. 

Paul adds: 1Co 6:15  Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid. 

**1Co 6:19  What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? 

1Co 6:20  For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.

Amen